Donnita Hathaway has only a vague remembrance of her father, who died when she was 2. But the one thing that has endured over the decades is his abiding love, which she cherishes today.
“Over the short time he was in my life, I know he showered me with love,” reflects Hathaway, remembering the legendary artist Donny Hathaway, who died by suicide at age 33. “While he didn’t have the capacity to behave as a typical dad, I know he prayed for me, cared about me, and extended unconditional love.”
Donny Hathaway’s Brilliance — and His Struggles
Donny Hathaway — multitalented vocalist, arranger, lyricist, and keyboardist – is revered for music that touches the pain, passions, joy, struggle, and vulnerability of the human spirit. He was diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia in his 20s, reportedly experiencing depression, hallucinations, and persistent delusions. In January 1979, he plunged from the 15th Floor of a New York City hotel to his death.
While reportedly prescribed many drugs and enduring several hospitalizations, he never received adequate care from a health system that lacked the capacity and cultural competency to address the needs of a Black man afflicted with mental health crises.
Donnita, 49, migrated to St. Louis in 2023, where her father was reared. She says she is moving ever closer to an embrace and celebration of his life and contributions.
“Once I began to know my Dad as a young woman, I learned he was a trailblazer. When I was old enough to understand — connecting with this person and that person — it was clear he inspired everyone he touched.”
Transforming memory into action, Hathaway has launched the Donnie Hathaway Legacy Project. She says the nonprofit organization will create a space where culture, holistic healing, and community meet mental health. Calling the project a love letter to her dad, she noted that he would have turned 80 this past October.
A Mental Health Crisis in Black Families
“We will focus on healing trauma-informed heartbreak with conscious care – especially targeting musicians and creators, Black men, boys, and young people,” says Hathaway. “We’re coming to the end of the year, and as we begin 2026, many folks are depleted. There’s missing seats at the table of loved ones who have passed on. Add to that sadness, the political attacks being visited upon our community.”
In nearly every Black family, someone is navigating the weight of mental health challenges. The magnitude of these struggles is often cloaked in stigma and shame, and the crisis confronting Black families is hardly matched by the interventions for cures.
The Toll of Untreated Mental Illness
The American Psychiatric Association estimates that only one in three Black adults with mental illness receives treatment. They are less likely to receive consistent care, less likely to be included in research, and more likely to rely on emergency rooms or primary care providers instead of mental health specialists.
Alarming data point to rising suicide rates among Black youth and young adults ages 10 to 24, particularly Black males. Some data show rates rising over 50% in Black youth, marking the first time the increase has surpassed white youth rates. While the overall suicide rate has trended downward, a Pew Research Center study found that between 2007 and 2020, the suicide rate among Black youth ages 10 to 17 rose by 144%.
Stigma, Barriers, and Systemic Failure
In 2019, the Congressional Black Caucus (CBC) released a report on the national crisis, with recommendations and the establishment of the CBC Emergency Taskforce on Black Youth Suicide and Mental Health.
While studies conclude that the rates of depressive disorder affecting Black Americans are similar to those of the general population, other factors create wide disparities in treatment, including the trauma of racism, limited access to culturally competent health providers, and cost and access to treatment.
Cultural barriers include distrust in the health system and an over-reliance on religion as a cure. Stigma associated with early and sustained intervention also stems from an unspoken racial code to tough it out — no matter how profound or intractable the problems.
Black Women and the Responsiblity for Care
Unmet needs often spill over into family and community level violence, homelessness, and confrontations with police and the criminal legal system. Mental health crises affect entire families, but the responsibility to respond often falls on the matriarchs — mothers, aunties, grandmothers, sisters — who have limited capacity to process action plans, access resources, or seek support for their family and themselves.
Unerased | Black Women Speak, dedicated to creating narrative, content, and public engagement that elevate the cross-generational voices and challenges of Black women, will forge partnerships with organizations that share the vision of empowering Black women.
Building Spaces for Healing
“Piercing the Pain: Confronting Mental Health, Stigma & Shame” will be launched in the first quarter of 2026, forging an alliance with Black women mental health professionals, civic leaders, and communications specialists steeped in storytelling and content creation. Activities, focused on giving Black women their voice and power, will include engagement in trusted “care circles,” testimonials, storytelling, and resource guides that impart information and open pathways to healthier lives for Black families.
“There’s a healing balm in all of us. Whenever we can, there must be a push for awareness, resources — to address trauma and heartbreak,” Hathaway notes.
Gwen McKinney is campaign director of Unerased | Black Women Speak and a communications strategist based in Washington, D.C.
